Okay then, so now what do you do with it? That’s the real issue. Tonight I’m taking action on my list. Pick one. Do it.
Here’s an idea for you. Make a list of about 40 or 50 things that make you happy when you are down. Yes you can do that. Just start and they will roll off your tongue. Now if some of these things are work things, kinds of work you might love, writing, designing, coding websites, helping others, eating chocolate – oops that’s not work. The idea is you might find that there are work things you love and are dying to do that just bubble to the top and you need to put them on the list. An artist might have a nature walk or calm time in a zen garden so they can feel again, and create.
I had things like read the comics in the newspaper for ten minutes. The next step is to put times on them. Blog on your facebook page might take 15 minutes. A long walk in the park might take 2 hours. Go down the list and put the time it takes to do this next to each item.
Okay now, if you typed it then rearrange it by time. If you wrote them on stickie notes or cards, rearrange or group them by time, highlight them in colors. 15 minutes or less, 30 minutes or less, an hour or so, longer, like that.
Now what do you do? . . . well there are times we get down. Try this. See what time you have till your next obligation, then check your list, pick an item that fits in the time slot and just go do it. Focus on the fun. Focus on a thing you like to do, fun, work, creative, serving others, whatever it is. You get the satisfaction. You get something done. AND it might be something on your list list – not the list of things that make me happy, but the list of all the things you want to do.
Frankly, if making me and others happy kinds of things are not on the list of things you want to do then something’s missing here. Toss the rest of the list and replace it with the things you want to do that will give you a chance to be happy, feel satisfied, get space, breathe and generally do good for yourself and others. Then instead of sitting around thinking how you want to do this and someday you might, go to bed tonight thinking how cool it was that you had a few minutes and just went and did it.
Time for this “to do” item was 15 minutes. I made a plan with friends. Each of us promised the others we would blog each day for 30 days . . . to solidly get the habit going again. It is now the beginning of day two. All of us did our blog posts, even the perfectionist who did not make it perfect but said she would just say . . . more tomorrow and add dot dot dot.
Your turn! Go do something that will make you happy in fifiteen minutes or whatever you got.
I just did.
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Does it Count if You Go Blog a Good Comment on Other People’s Blogs?
Personally I think it does. Last week I started a competitive deal with two friends living on separate continents. We wanted to encourage each other to get back to posting regularly. So I came back to blogging here, a practice I want to make a daily part of my life with lots of good web design and SEO resources. I challenged them to blog as well, in their own venues. it worked!
Both of these friends have actually posted blogs every day, both of them creating new word press blogs for the occasion. They are enjoying it I think, or so they say. My email messages to them, after each time I posted, were “Tag, you’re it!” It worked!
Seriously though, one waxed profound about her experience and shared with me for posting: “I found myself staring at a blank page full of preconceived notions of what a blog post should be. Ben Franklin, Hugh Laurie, and Oprah rolled into one amazing post – right? Yikes, talk about writer’s block! I decided my first effort would be like jumping into a cold lake. At first I would resist, but once in and splashing around, it could be lots of fun. And it was.”
The other shares: “don’t dither, just do it.” Can you hear a bit of an English accent there?
So, then, what do I do but fall victim to the same old same old – no time – and I had such a good headstart. The schedule got slamming overwhelming, and what is the first to go but the last thing to get started, despite my proclamations of intentions. Isn’t it always this way. Well, determined as I am, what I did instead of blogging here was to go on both of their websites and post good comments, like posts in themselves. So I counted those and I am only a day or two behind schedule.
I’d like to offer this journey to others as a live walk through starting a new habit. So many people are kind of afraid to post and blog here. With all the opportunities that Pat Howlett has made for those of us who blog on this site, it is simply absurd not to do so as part of marketing your business. Its hard to get going though. But if I can do it . . . you can do it. Just look at all the blog posts on the right there – in the column to the right on this page – scrolling by, one new post after another literally seconds apart. Phenomenal. Join in!
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